You Fill My Cup!

Today, I went out to grab a cup of coffee (well, not really a cup, but a glass of iced coffee), where this blog post came to being. Earlier before that, on my way to the city, a friend shared to me how sad it is to be left out by someone you love most whom you'll be seeing for the next 10 months or so. Sad, right? Yes! So sad!

L-O-N-E-L-I-N-E-S-S, according to Wikipedia, is an unpleasant feeling in which a person experiences a strong sense of emptiness and solitude resulting from inadequate levels of social relationships. However, it is a subjective experience. Loneliness has also been described as social pain - a psychological mechanism meant to alert an individual of undesired isolation and motivate her/him to seek social connections.

Looking at my glass of iced coffee, and how it gets empty, made me thought how much I wanted more---kaya lang kapos na sa budget! LOL :D But seriously, it made me thought, what if it will be my turn to feel that loneliness..??? <emo mode... blog ideas popping! *not yet a good blogger, but going to be...*>

At times in our life we feel this emptiness from missing someone who makes filled our cup much sugar... much love... much life... Ah, that sweet sweet feeling having someone right there with you---the crazy talks, the laughter, pikonan, asaran, merriment,  priceless! *sigh*

Human as we are, we feel this (loneliness)... But life goes on, even if we stood still right where we are now.

I say, fight off this unnecessary loneliness! Keep in mind that every single day that passes by is a day closer til you two meet again and make another memory to miss. Well as for me, when the time comes that I have to part from someone so dear to me, I will do the same (go on and move forward, counting the days til I see you again), tomorrow brings a promise---it will be the same excitement as getting another glass of iced coffee from the cafe to make my day. ;-)

Motion creates emotion!

~Walking on Sunshine~

"F-R-I-E-N-D-S"

Friendship is the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring all right out just as they are, chaff and grain together, certain that a faithful friendly hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping and, with a breath of comfort, blow the rest away.

We can never deny the joy brought about by the truest sense of friendship that fills the gap far more than any relationship can.

I met a handful of "friends" along the way: friends from my childhood, from high school, from college, and up to now, I'm still adding! ;-) But the most rewarding friends are the ones who stayed with you long enough, and as the saying goes: "the older the more valuable."

So, to the girls on the left, this is my way of saying "Thanks for the friendship!" ♥ ♥ ♥

The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart.  ~Elisabeth Foley